{"id":526,"date":"2007-07-15T05:03:18","date_gmt":"2007-07-15T02:03:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/toddbolen.com\/2007\/07\/15\/big-d\/"},"modified":"2007-07-15T05:03:18","modified_gmt":"2007-07-15T02:03:18","slug":"big-d","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/toddbolen.com\/blog\/2007\/07\/15\/big-d\/","title":{"rendered":"Big D"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>We are in Dallas.&nbsp; Our Thursday and Friday ran together as we pulled an all-nighter packing our lives up.&nbsp; We never would have made it without the help of our dear friends Jodi and Yuliya.&nbsp; Thursday afternoon our family was walking the alleyways of the Old City and Friday evening we were driving through the suburbs of the <a href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/United_States_metropolitan_area\">fourth largest metropolitan area<\/a> in the U.S. (after NY, LA and Chicago).&nbsp; Why so many people want to live here is a mystery that I guess we will discover.<\/p>\n<p>We are staying at the home of friends who are traveling for two weeks.&nbsp; Once upon a time they were IBEX students.&nbsp; If measured in terms of square feet and pictures on the wall, they have come a long ways real fast.&nbsp; When they return, we&#8217;ll be moving closer to the center of Dallas to stay with other friends who will be around for a week before going on vacation.&nbsp; Altogether we are hopeful that this will give us enough time to locate a church and a house.&nbsp; A car is in there too but that should be easier than the other two.<\/p>\n<p>I wish that I could be focused solely on this transition, but I have so many things on my list that just didn&#8217;t get done this summer (or last semester, or the one before that, etc.) that I really must apply myself very carefully to clear the decks, at least make some progress.&nbsp; Most of the time I feel as if I am going backwards, with more things being added to the list than subtracted.&nbsp; Either I am loved or incompetent.<\/p>\n<p>A new thing on the summer list is to &#8220;refresh&#8221; my Greek in preparation for a course this fall.&nbsp; It&#8217;s amazing how much you can forget in 12 years.<\/p>\n<p>In recent times, people have told us &#8220;congratulations&#8221; or &#8220;you must be excited.&#8221;&nbsp; Perhaps that feeling will come.&nbsp; At this point, we feel more of the &#8220;loss&#8221; than of the &#8220;opportunity.&#8221;&nbsp; We feel more of the &#8220;leaving&#8221; than of the &#8220;arriving.&#8221; We still believe this is God&#8217;s will and we know that we deserve nothing from him, including another second in Israel.&nbsp; We should be rejoicing over the wonderful years thus far, and we do.&nbsp; <\/p>\n<p>UPDATE: I have changed some words in the last paragraph to more accurately reflect my feelings.&nbsp; The original post was written when I was quite tired.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We are in Dallas.&nbsp; Our Thursday and Friday ran together as we pulled an all-nighter packing our lives up.&nbsp; We never would have made it without the help of our dear friends Jodi and Yuliya.&nbsp; Thursday afternoon our family was walking the alleyways of the Old City and Friday evening we were driving through the\u2026 <span class=\"read-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/toddbolen.com\/blog\/2007\/07\/15\/big-d\/\">Read More &raquo;<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[23],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-526","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-life"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/toddbolen.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/526","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/toddbolen.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/toddbolen.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/toddbolen.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/toddbolen.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=526"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/toddbolen.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/526\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/toddbolen.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=526"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/toddbolen.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=526"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/toddbolen.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=526"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}